Settling In: The 3-3-3 Rule
Settling in a new hound is an ongoing process as they are learning, growing and developing their character for months. The initial period is crucial in setting them up to succeed, and understanding the 3-3-3 rule is a good starting point!
Regardless of the route you go down to adopt your hound, for instance directly from a racing kennel, or from a rehoming/rescue centre, the approach is the same. While some may have been adopted or fostered previously, and may have some experience of a home environment, they haven’t been in your home. It is still a new environment, with a new routine, new humans, and there is a lot to learn.
Too many hounds are given up when they haven’t been given a chance to settle fully. Settling in a new hound is an ongoing process. They are learning, growing, and developing their character for months into their new home. The initial period is crucial in settling your companion up to succeed and understanding the 3-3-3 rule is a good starting point!
The 3-3-3 rule serves simply as a guideline for gradually acclimating your new hound to their surroundings, routines, and relationships within their new family. It emphasizes the importance of patience, consistency, and understanding during what is the critical adjustment period…but while an effective strategy to follow, it isn’t a hard and fast rule.
Some dogs may require a more extended version of the 3-3-3 rule, depending on their personality, but in essence the 3-3-3 rule is a rough time scale. One to remember, so to not expect too much of your hounds to early on, and to forgive blips and backward steps.
- The first three days is where your hound is decompressing. They are feeling overwhelmed, are scared, and are generally running on autopilot due to sensory overload and are unsure of what is going on. They may not feel like eating, may hide away or test boundaries.
During this period, it's crucial to create a calm and secure atmosphere to help the dog feel safe and comfortable. Limiting exposure to external stimuli and providing a quiet space where they can retreat is essential. Additionally, establishing a predictable routine for feeding, toilet breaks, walks and rest will aid in reducing stress and anxiety.
The dog will be confused, worried and looking for reassurance. They will likely be panting a lot, pacing, having trouble settling, may be a bit defensive or overly needy and will most likely have an upset belly. They will most likely have the odd accident in the house while they are learn how to ask to go out!
We often find that hounds new to the home will present with signs of separation anxiety for the first week to three weeks...but don’t panic! Most people do tend to panic! It is quite normal, and it is not separation anxiety (yet), they are looking to you for guidance!
Prior to coming home, most greyhounds have never been in a house before, so it is all unfamiliar. The only thing they know, and trust, is humans! As a result, they like to keep their humans in sight for reassurance, to learn from and bond with, which is why it is important to take some time off work to get your new dog settled in.
- The first three weeks is where start to learn the routine and will be starting to settle in, feeling more comfortable with you and their new environment. They will be starting to let their guard down and you will want to be focusing on building trust, establishing boundaries, and fostering positive associations.
You may find at the 3–4-week mark that your hound becomes quite ‘naughty’, regresses in their house training or their separation training where they were previously doing really well.
It’s not uncommon for this to happen, and many people think they’ve adopted a total angel in that initial couple of weeks…everything has gone without a hitch, which can create a false sense of security and understanding to how the dog is coping which leads to owners doing too much too soon, leading to negative behaviours to develop once past the initial weeks such as freezing, chewing, reactivity, barking or overexcitability.
This is why it is important not to rush into things, thinking that everything is going well. The majority of problems hound owners encounter in the initial settling in period are as a result of doing too much too soon. Introducing the dog to new experiences gradually, whether it's meeting other pets or encountering different environments, helps prevent overwhelm and instils confidence. Positive reinforcement techniques, such as treats, praise, and play, reinforce desired behaviours and strengthen the bond between you and your new canine companion.
Consistency in training, socialisation, and bonding activities are key during this phase as with the feeling of settling in and becoming comfortable, comes the testing of boundaries and their character coming out more.
- The first three months, and the final stage of the 3-3-3 rule, is when your hound should be starting to feel fully at home. They will trust in you more; they will be showing more of their personality and will feel a sense of security in the home. They will know what is expected of them. They should be well adapted to their routine, surroundings, and the family dynamics. However, you cannot become complacent at this point, ongoing patience, guidance, and consistency are still essential as the dog continues to develop trust and confidence both at home and outdoors. Continued socialisation, training, and mental stimulation will ensure the dog's well-being and contribute to their long-term adjustment to the great wide world!
But, while this is a rough guide...it can take a dog up to a year (or more) to show their full personality and feel comfortable enough to express all their quirks, experience all their ‘firsts’ and learn the ways of life.
Remember, every dog is unique, so be flexible and adaptive in your approach, and most importantly, enjoy the journey of building a strong and fulfilling bond with your new furry friend.
By setting your hound up for success, you will succeed together!
